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Uphukile Ukuze Uphelele

Inkulumo ye-TED yesazi sezokuhlalisana kwabantu u-Brene Brown mayelana nokuba sengozini iqongozelele amahithi angaphezu kwezigidi eziyishumi nanhlanu. Iphuzu elibalulekile ekudumeni kwayo yiqiniso elicacile lokuthi, njengoba silwa nakho, silangazelela inkululeko yokuvuma ukuthi siphukile. Asisiboni isidingo kithi sokwenza. Kuyiqiniso kithi sonke, futhi kuyiqiniso kakhulu kulabo abangakuqapheli lokho.

uBrown usisiza ukuthi sibone ukuthi asisodwa. Nakhu akushoyo: “Thina ‘singalabobantu.’ Iqiniso liwukuthi... singabanye. Iningi lethu linesheke elilodwa, isehlukaniso esisodwa, ingane eyodwa ehlulwa izidakamizwa, ukuxilongwa kwempilo yengqondo eyodwa, ukugula okubi okukodwa, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi okukodwa, ukuphuza ngokweqile, ubusuku obubodwa bokuya ocansini olungavikelekile, noma umjolo okude "labo bantu" esingabathembi, esibahawukelayo, esingavumeli izingane zethu zidlale nabo, okubi okwenzeka kubo, labo esingakufuni ukuhlala nabo njengomakhelwane.”

Maningi kakhulu amazwi asitshela ukuthi siqhubeke nokubukeka, ngoba uma singakwenzi lokho, impilo yethu izowohloka.

Kunamazwi amaningi kakhulu asitshela ukuthi sizijabulise, futhi uma singacabangi imicabango emibi, izinto ezimbi ngandlela thize zizoncipha.

Yingakho abantu kulesikhathi esiphila kuso sebeyizingcweti zokukhohlisa, ochwepheshe ekufihleni ubuhlungu, abasebenzisa kabi imithi, izigqila zezikweletu, abalandeli bemfashini, nabahlanganyeli besizungu. Ngoba ngeke siqaphele ukuthi ikhambi lokugcina lokuphulwa... ukuphuka.

Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi uNkulunkulu wenza abaphukile baphelele. Uthatha abanganakwa, abangabalulekile, abashiywe ngaphandle, abacishiwe, abonakele nobacekeleke phansi, futhi bese enza lokho angakwenza kuphela.

UNkulunkulu uyathanda ukwenza abaphukile babe bahle.

UJeremiya 18:4-6 uwumfanekiso omuhle kaNkulunkulu ohlezi esondweni, ebheka phansi ocezwini lobumba olunesici, futhi enqaba ukulujikijela. Umbumbi wenza enye imbiza “njengoba kwakubonakala kukuhle emehlweni akhe.” Lonke ubumba olufanayo nokuqhekeka okufanayo, kodwa konke kwenziwa kusha. Ayikho inqwaba kadoti. Ubuciko busemandleni angapheli ocezu olulodwa lobumba.

Umthandazo wami uthi, “Nkulunkulu, thatha izingcezwana zami uzibumbe zibe lokho okubona kungcono kakhulu kuwe.”