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Day 1: Samson and Delilah – When Love Lacks Wisdom

Samson is a well-known biblical figure, often celebrated for his incredible strength. However, his story also serves as a cautionary tale about the importance of discernment in relationships. When Samson met Delilah, he was captivated by her charm and beauty, but he overlooked the warning signs. Delilah was not a woman of faith; she sought to betray him for personal gain.

Despite the great love Samson professed for Delilah, he failed to exercise discernment, ultimately leading to his downfall.

As singles, we must recognize that attraction can sometimes cloud our judgment. Samson's story reminds us that it is crucial to evaluate the character and intentions of the people we date. Are they genuinely supportive of our faith? Do they encourage our spiritual growth? Are they truly sent by God? Samson's failure to ask these questions led him to compromise his values, resulting in devastating consequences. Reflect on your own relationships—are there areas where you might be overlooking red flags or ignoring God's warnings?

Today, pray for the gift of discernment in your dating life. Ask God to help you see beyond physical attraction and to provide you with the wisdom to recognize partners who align with His purpose for your life. Remember that true love will never ask you to betray your convictions or compromise your relationship with God.

Assignment:

Reflect on any past or present relationships. Write down two or three instances where you might have ignored warning signs or compromised your values.

Make a list of the qualities you believe are vital in a partner who will support your faith and spiritual growth.

Spend 10 minutes in prayer, asking God for discernment and wisdom in your dating life. Specifically, ask Him to reveal any "red flags" in your current or future relationships and the strength to act on them.