Raising Emotionally Healthy KidsНамуна

Day 5 | Hurt

As parents, we never want our kids to feel hurt. But whether it is broken friendship, a missed opportunity, or feeling let down, feeling hurt is something we can anticipate for our children. When our kids are hurt, we can show up for them and help them to remember God is with them, too:

• When your kid is hurt, listen. Invite them to share what they’re comfortable with and acknowledge why they’re feeling that way.
• Provide comfort through prayer. Remind your kids that God wants to help us with our hurt, no matter how big or small. Teach them that just like they told you about their pain, they can tell God, too.
• Remind your kids that there is no specific way you need to pray to God. Instead, tell him how you feel and ask for strength and peace
• Invite your child to share their hurts with others who are trustworthy and caring. Whether it is a Small Group Leader, friend, or family member, let them know they are cared for by many

Prayer: Dear God, I know that when my children are hurt, you hurt with them. I pray that you provide them with comfort and peace in times of pain. Help me to show up for my kids in the ways that they need and be with them as they come to you. We love you. Amen.