Love Is Patient: Embracing God’s Timing in Relationships When Starting as FriendsНамуна

Day 1: Patience as an Expression of Love

Have you ever thought about how patience reveals love? It’s not always easy to wait. Whether it’s waiting for an answer, a sign, or even for someone’s feelings to unfold, patience can sometimes feel like a heavy load. But here’s the thing — patience isn’t just about waiting; it’s about how you wait. Are you grumbling, rushing, or trying to control the outcome? Or are you trusting, peaceful, and willing to let things happen in God’s perfect time?

When we look at 1 Corinthians 13:4, we’re reminded that love begins with patience. It’s no coincidence that this is the very first description of love. Patience sets the tone for everything else — kindness, selflessness, and humility. Without the willingness to be patient, love becomes small and self-centered. But when you patiently wait for someone to grow or for God’s plan to unfold, you’re reflecting a pure and selfless kind of love.

Consider what it looks like to build a relationship on friendship first. Starting as friends may not feel as exciting or romantic as jumping into something headfirst, but it’s often the wiser, more loving approach. Friendship lays a foundation of trust, understanding, and mutual respect … qualities that romantic feelings alone can’t sustain. By being patient, you give that friendship room to bloom naturally. You’re not rushing the process; you’re letting it grow into something meaningful.

Think of a time you’ve seen patience in action. Maybe it’s watching a parent teach their child how to tie their shoes repeatedly and without frustration. Or it could be someone simply waiting for you to open up about how you’re feeling. Patience always carries a quiet strength. It doesn’t demand or push. Instead, it gives room for love to breathe and flourish.

The same applies to relationships. You might not always see the results of your patience right away, and that can be hard. But remember, love is about the long game. It’s about being willing to wait for the right time, trusting that God is shaping the other person and your heart along the way.

Today, reflect on the idea of patience as love in action. Ask God to give you the strength to wait well, not just with a calm heart, but with one that overflows with kindness and understanding. Because when you practice patience, you’re not just waiting — you’re loving in a way that mirrors God’s love for you.