21 Days of Rightful Relationships Smakprov

Day 21 – Marrying the one He has for you!

How can two walk together unless they agree?

Often, we may feel that if a person is a good choice, he would be a candidate to be a spouse. But God made it clear that this isn't so. God tells in 2 Corinthians 6:14, that you should not be unequally yoked.

Time after time, God shows us a lesson - a very important one. God knows His plans for us, therefore He will not allow us to go astray. And while we may have our own desires in mind, it is wise to always pray what I called the courageous prayer –

Father if this relationship is not of You, please close this door.

For me, I finally came to a place where I knew God wanted more for me. Actually more than what I wanted for myself. For this reason, He would not allow me to settle. Also, He made it clear that my relationship with my potential spouse had to based on the principles of God.

Therefore there were no short cuts.

Disobedience would not be allowed.

And there is no need to fear, because God is with me.

I knew if I wanted to obtain the promises He had for me, I had to make certain my relationship aligned with Him. So I did.

So, I joined God’s team. I mean truly joined His team, not just in mere words, but finally in action. And this time before I entered a relationship - I asked the questions that I had tucked away in my heart.

Are we equally yoked?

Should I continue this path?

Is this God’s will for my life?

Is this person willing to be obedient to God’s will in everything?

Will this relationship bring glory to God’s kingdom?

And if the answer was no, I knew the relationship wasn't for me. But finally, I knew I was closer to God’s promise for me. Now instead of just saying yes to a dress, I am saying yes to His will and way for my life.

Ask God to guide you and pray this prayer for the right relationship as it pertains to marriage.

From the book 21 Days of Rightful Relationships by Kemberley Washington. Copyright © 2015 by Kemberley Washington. Published by 21daysof.com. All rights reserved.