Distractions In Your Marriage - Part 2Chikamu

In-Laws

Devotional Content:

Comedians worldwide seem to get much of their material from in-laws. We stereotype mothers-in-law and fathers-in-law. We can paint pretty negative pictures of them. But I truly believe most parents want the best for their son or daughter and the marriage. But are there times when a couple needs to set boundaries with their in-laws? Yes.

In young couples, this is what I often see. Parents do not see the young couple’s marriage as a separate entity. They seem to want to immerse the new marriage in the family circle. A daughter-in-law or son-in-law can feel like they have lost their own identity within the world of the in-laws.

In some situations, this can be a fine line. But ultimately, every married couple needs to have their own identity separate from their families of origin. If they do not, it can stifle the marriage, and the marriage never gets a chance to grow and develop into all it can be. In this way, in-laws can be a distraction to a marriage.

So if you are the in-law, give the couple the space they need to grow their marriage into everything God would have it be. If you are the couple, together set clear boundaries that allow your marriage to prosper and grow.

Today’s Challenge: What do you think God is leading you to do after reading today’s devotional?

Going Deeper:

1. Dr.Kim shares that every couple needs to have their own identity separate from their family origin. What boundaries do you need to set in place with your in-laws to make sure that you as a couple have your own identity?

2. List 2 ways you can be intentional about having your own identity as a couple apart from your families?

3. Have you ever had a conversation with your in-laws about boundaries? Do you need to?

4. Pray and ask God to protect your marriage from distractions.