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Forgiveness and Reconciliation

DAY 22 OF 24

The Hidden Enemies in Our Daily Lives

Have you ever met someone who would make the perfect villain in the next James Bond movie? Wouldn't it be nice if our enemies were as easily recognizable as they often are in films? However, our enemies are usually not so obvious at first glance but rather hide in everyday situations.

  • The colleague who doubts you: Perhaps there's someone at your job who constantly questions your competence or criticizes you in front of other colleagues and your boss. Such remarks have the power to undermine your self-esteem and weaken your motivation at work.
  • Conflicts in your relationships: In your marriage or friendships, internal insecurities may fuel conflicts or prevent you from addressing them openly. Your fear of rejection or misunderstandings creates distance and fosters tension, which burdens your relationship.
  • Illness that robs hope: Chronic illnesses are not only physically taxing but often also affect the soul and your faith. They test our patience and hope and can lead us to doubt God's plan and our future.

However, Jesus has given us a key to overcome such enemies: we are to pray for the people or circumstances that make our lives difficult (see Matthew 5:44). Why? Because when we pray for these people, our hearts change, and we experience healing. For example, if you pray for the colleague who treats you unfairly, you might find that your anger diminishes, and instead, you develop a better understanding of your colleague's situation and feel compassion for him. This can help you resolve the conflicts with him.

But how can prayer change your approach to chronic illness? On the one hand, prayer has the power to heal. A faith as small as a mustard seed is enough to move mountains (see Matthew 17:20-21). A prayer spoken in faith, trusting that nothing is impossible for God, has the power to bring about immediate healing or initiate a healing process. But even if God doesn't heal your illness, prayer can bring comfort, as it helps you enter God's presence. And God is love, and He is stronger than all your enemies combined. If you have to choose between the hatred of your enemies and the unconditional love of God, which will you choose?

Next Step: Who are your enemies? Pray for them and see how God will change the situation through your prayer.

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Forgiveness and Reconciliation

Forgiveness is a big word, but what exactly does forgiveness mean? And what are the consequences if we don't forgive? And what is the difference between forgiving, pardoning and reconciling? This reading plan is structured like an Advent calendar: 24 “doors” and behind each one a little treasure awaits you about the incredible gift that Jesus gave you for Christmas.

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