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God always moves toward us. Jesus’ incarnation is a reminder that God comes to us. He chases after us. He seeks us out. We see time and again, Jesus entered into people’s pain and offered grace and hope, and not from a distance. As John would say, “the Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us” (John 1:14 NIV).

This is why the author of Hebrews could comfort and encourage us with these words: “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin” (Hebrews 4:15 NIV, emphasis added). Jesus understands our human struggles. Our frustration, struggles, and prayers of desperation are met with empathy, not indifference. And He doesn’t just feel sorry for us; He’s willing to help us—He carried it to Calvary. So yes, He understands our struggles. But it’s so much more than that.

The Bible reminds us that we have the Holy Spirit who is the Paraclete—which can be translated as the Comforter, Advocate, Helper, or Counselor—guiding and caring for us (John 14:26). God knows us so well and comforts us according to our needs.

He is so good.

And like our Triune God, when we practice EMPATHY (Practice #4) toward one another, we experience a deep sense of care, love, and bond. What good is it if we open up with vulnerability but no one is moving toward us with empathy? Empathy bridges the gap between us and strengthens our bond of belonging.

What would it look like to find someone God is highlighting today to support them through your empathy?

Prayer

Lord, I know that I can’t face the struggles of this world alone, and I am so thankful that You have sent the Holy Spirit to strengthen and comfort me. Help me to live compassionately with my presence and words—to offer empathy to those around me. Amen.