Wives Who Win for Christ: Influencing Your Unsaved Husband Through Discipleship by Dr. Treal RavenelSample

Day 2: Daily Devotion is Non-Negotiable

Psalm 119:11 "I have stored up Your word in my heart, that I might not sin against You"

Daily devotion is not just a good idea; it’s a non-negotiable part of living out your faith. When you commit to a daily time of reflection and prayer, you are grounding yourself in God’s Word, and this can profoundly impact your relationship with your husband. Just as you wouldn’t skip a meal, don’t skip your spiritual nourishment.

You may feel tempted to rush through your devotion or even skip it entirely when life gets hectic. But think about how vital it is to fill your heart and mind with God’s truth. Your husband watches how you navigate life, and when he sees the strength and wisdom you gain from your daily devotions, it can spark his curiosity about your faith.

As you engage in daily devotion, remember to embody the fruit of the Spirit—especially patience and kindness. Avoid any temptation to adopt a self-righteous attitude regarding your husband’s spiritual state. Instead, approach your devotion to cultivate love and grace in your home.

Application:

You’ve decided that your daily devotionals are non-negotiable. You select a devotional that resonates with your heart and commit to spending time with it every morning. One day, the topic is about overcoming trials with faith. As you read, you reflect on your own challenges and how God has been faithful through them.

After your devotion, you share a powerful insight with your husband during breakfast: "I read today about how God uses our trials to strengthen us. It made me think of how we can rely on Him during tough times." He listens, intrigued, and begins to share his own struggles, opening the door for deeper conversations about faith and resilience.

By demonstrating the importance of daily devotion, you model a life rooted in God’s Word, which encourages your husband to consider his own relationship with faith.

Devotional Reflection:

What does your current devotional life look like? How can you make it a priority in your daily routine? Consider the ways your daily devotion can positively influence your husband’s perception of faith.

Practical Steps:

1. Choose a devotional book or app that resonates with you and fits your lifestyle.

2. Set a specific time for your daily devotion and ensure it’s a sacred time.

3. Share insights from your devotion with your husband, encouraging him to ask questions about what you’re learning.

Closing Prayer:

"Dear God, help me to remain steadfast in my devotion. Let my love for Your Word spill over into my conversations with my husband, drawing him closer to You. Amen."