7 Ways to Maintain Purity in Your Christian RelationshipSample

Day 4: How To Maintain Purity, pt. 3

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” - 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Sometimes it might feel like keeping the physical stuff out of your relationship will make it harder to really connect — but there are so many other fun and meaningful ways to build a relationship. Finding those together can help you maintain purity while dating.

5. Limit Time Alone in Private Settings

Finding fun things to do that don't involve being alone at home can be a great way to keep your relationship exciting and safe. Try hanging out at a café, going for a walk in the park, or catching a movie. Public places provide a natural buffer, making it easier to stick to your commitment to purity.

Group dates can be a blast, too! You get to enjoy each other's company while being surrounded by friends. Whether it's a group game night or a double date, having others around can add a layer of accountability and make your time together feel more relaxed and enjoyable.

Remember, the goal is to create a comfortable environment where you can focus on getting to know each other better without the pressure of private settings. By planning activities that are fun and engaging, you’re not only building great memories but also staying true to your values.

6. Explore Non-Physical Ways to Show Affection

Understanding how your partner feels loved can transform your relationship. Love languages like words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch can guide you in showing affection in meaningful ways.

Try writing sweet notes or love letters. It’s a charming way to share your feelings and give your partner something they can cherish. Thoughtful gifts don’t need to be expensive; it’s the thought behind them that counts. A handmade craft or their favorite snack can show you care.

Quality time is another fantastic way to connect. Plan fun activities like cooking together, playing board games, or exploring a new part of town. These shared experiences bring you closer without needing sexual intimacy to become closer.