7 Ways to Maintain Purity in Your Christian RelationshipSample

Day 2: How To Maintain Purity, pt. 1

“The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.” - Proverbs 11:3

Whether you're starting a new relationship or you've been together for a while, there are ways to keep your connection strong without ditching your decision to wait for sex until marriage. Here are two ways to maintain purity while keeping your relationship in a good place, respectful, and in line with your beliefs.

1. Have Honest Conversations About Boundaries

Start by sitting down together and having an open chat about what you're comfortable with and where you draw the line. This not only helps avoid awkward situations but also strengthens trust between you two. Remember, it's okay for your boundaries to evolve over time, so keep this conversation going.

Being upfront about your expectations from the get-go can save both of you from misunderstandings and hurt feelings later on. It's really important that you’re on the same page when it comes to physical boundaries.

Also, be patient and understanding with each other. Everyone has different comfort levels and past experiences that shape their views on intimacy. By continually discussing and respecting each other's boundaries, you'll create a safe space where your relationship can flourish.

2. Get Creative with Date Ideas

Think beyond the typical dinner-and-a-movie date. Go hiking, have a game night with friends, or find an organization to volunteer for together. Engaging in fun shared activities can help you connect on a deeper level without the need for physical intimacy.

Exploring new hobbies and interests together can bring a fresh sense of adventure to your relationship. Learning to cook a new dish can be a fun challenge that requires teamwork and communication. Spending time in nature during a hike can offer a peaceful environment to talk and connect on a deeper level.

These activities not only keep things exciting but also help you build a relationship that’s built on more than just physical attraction. The key is to find activities you both enjoy and that allow you to grow closer in ways that honor your commitment to purity.