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Challenging a friend takes courage, honesty, vulnerability, and kindness. It's hard to do, but also one of the most important things we can do in a friendship. In fact, you might say that confronting someone honestly is the sign of a real friend.
It's important that we do it with wisdom and care. Next time you feel like you need to challenge a friend, here are a few things to remember.
First, make sure you know exactly why you're challenging a friend. Make sure your goals are clear, specific, and always connected to wanting what is best for them.
Then, ask God for help. These conversations are tough, and you'll need all the help you can get. Pray for wisdom and bravery, and ask God to help your friend understand that you are having the conversation because you care.
When you talk to your friend, make sure you tell them how much they mean to you. You're not criticizing them. You're talking to them because you love them and want them to be the best they can be.
Finally, be ready for anything. You can do everything right and your friend still just might not take it very well. Be patient with your friend and with yourself. Just because things didn't go well in one conversation doesn't mean you failed, and it doesn't mean your friendship is over. Be gracious, compassionate, and forgiving, and trust God with the outcome.
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Friends are the people we’ve spent countless hours with telling stories, laughing, and creating memories together. Great friendships are more than just having people to hang out with, but how do you find friends like that? How do you build the kinds of friendships that last? And what do you do if you feel like your friendships aren't everything you'd want them to be?
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