12 Steps of Addiction RecoverySample

Step 5 – Admitting our wrongs

Step 5: Admitting to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs

Admitting the exact nature of our wrongs to God, ourselves, and another person is a vital step in the recovery process. It involves taking an honest and thorough inventory of our past and present behavior, acknowledging our shortcomings and mistakes, and taking responsibility for our actions.

Biblically, confession is an important aspect of repentance and forgiveness. In the New Testament, James 5:16 says, “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective”.

Confessing our wrongs to another person also involves being accountable to someone else in our journey toward recovery. This accountability can provide support, encouragement, and guidance as we work towards making amends and changing our behavior. It can also serve as a safeguard against slipping back into old patterns and behaviors.

Some may struggle with the idea of confessing their wrongs to another person, as it can be difficult to admit our weaknesses and mistakes to others. However, the benefits of this step outweigh the discomfort it may cause. Through confession, we can find freedom from the guilt and shame that often accompany addiction, and begin to take steps toward healing and restoration.

Reflection Questions:

-What emotions do I experience when I think about confessing my wrongs to God, myself, and others? Why do I feel this way?

-What past mistakes or behaviors am I struggling to admit to myself and to others? What is preventing me from admitting these wrongs?

-How have my wrongs affected those around me? What impact have they had on my relationships and my own well-being?