12 Steps of Addiction RecoverySample

Step Four: Taking Inventory

Step 4 of addiction recovery involves taking a deeper look at our lives and behaviors, and examining them through the lens of our faith. By doing so, we can begin to develop a greater sense of connection with God and seek to live in accordance with His will.

The process of taking inventory of our lives in Step 4 can be a challenging one, as it involves taking an honest look at our behaviors, thoughts, and emotions, as well as their impact on our lives and relationships. However, by doing so with a Christian perspective, we can see these challenges as opportunities for growth and transformation, rather than simply as a source of shame or guilt.

For example, by reflecting on the words of Jesus in Mark 7:21-23, we can recognize that our addiction and related behaviors come from within us and can defile us. By acknowledging this, we can take steps to address our character defects and seek to live in accordance with God's will, as outlined in Philippians 2:3-4, which encourages us to value others above ourselves and cultivate a spirit of humility.

In addition, by examining the impact of our addiction on our relationships and seeking to make amends (which we will make amends later on in this plan), we can embody the principles of forgiveness and reconciliation that are at the heart of the Christian faith. This is illustrated by Jesus' words in Matthew 5:23-24, which emphasize the importance of seeking reconciliation with those we have hurt before offering our gifts to God. But, we cannot seek reconciliation until we truly understand the pain that we may have caused people throughout our addiction. These relationships could include children, your parents, your spouse, your neighbors, or even coworkers. Recognizing where we went wrong can help us pave a better path in the future and eventually make amends with those we have hurt.

It’s also important to reflect on the ways in which your addiction has impacted your spirituality and relationship with God. Consider how you can begin to restore this relationship and build a deeper sense of connection with your faith. In James 4:8, we are reminded to "Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded." By turning to God and seeking His guidance, we can begin to heal from the wounds of addiction and find strength and hope in our faith.

Reflection Questions:

-What character defects have contributed to my addiction, and how can I work to address them in order to live free of addiction?

-How have my actions impacted others?

-In what ways can I practice forgiveness, both towards myself and others, as I work through the challenges of addiction recovery?

How can I integrate the principles of love, compassion, and humility into my daily life, as I seek to live in accordance with God’s will?