The Book of MatthewSample

Anyone who intends to come with me has to let me lead. You’re not in the driver’s seat; I am.

(Matthew 16:24, The Message) 

You might have heard it said before that we might change our methods, but the message remains the same. This saying explains the necessity of adapting traditions to communicate God’s Word in an ever-changing society. Unfortunately, people have a hard time letting go of traditions (ever since Jesus walked the earth). 

In chapter 15, the Pharisees confront Jesus about the disciples breaking Jewish traditions. Jesus responded in a slightly strange way, telling them that what comes out of their mouths is more important than what they put in them. He is referring to the words and spirit that come out of a person. He challenges their true intentions. He looks at their hearts to determine if they desire more of God. 

The same challenge remains for us today. Are we able to discern what is healthy and what is hypocritical? How? We remain constant in our pursuit of God, reading His Word, and allowing our minds to be renewed by it. God is concerned about our hearts. How do we have pure hearts? Certainly not through our abilities, but rather through the work of the Holy Spirit as He directs our lives and refreshes our thinking. 

Jesus continues to challenge the disciples’ perspectives as He predicts His death and resurrection. Peter is so unwilling to listen that Jesus rebukes him. Jesus then explains what it will cost them to follow Him: everything. When we can surrender to His ways, we can find true life. 

The big picture is: this life is not about us! It is not about our traditions or what we have to offer. It is about Jesus. It is about the God in whom we believe and His unmatchable power and glory.

Discussion Questions for Leader

What traditions do you think are important to keep? 

What does it mean to take up your cross? 

What does surrender look like in your life?