The Best Week of Your MarriageSample

Day One - Know What Matters Most

Life can get pretty busy with work, family, and everything else we have to manage. But in all the busyness, it’s important to remember what’s most important, especially in marriage.

Priority 1: God

The best foundation for a strong marriage is a strong relationship with God. When we put God first, everything else falls into place. This means setting aside time for prayer, reading the Bible, and seeking God’s guidance in our marriage and daily life.

Priority 2: Your Spouse

After God, your spouse should be your next priority. The Bible tells us that a man and woman become one when they marry (Genesis 2:24). Building a healthy marriage takes effort, love, and time. By focusing on your spouse, you strengthen your marriage and build a solid foundation for a lasting relationship.

Priority 3: Your Children

Children are a blessing, but they come after God and your spouse in terms of priorities. As parents, we’re called to guide our children in God’s ways (Proverbs 22:6). However, it’s essential not to let parenting take over your relationship with your spouse or God. By keeping your marriage strong, you create a loving environment where your children can thrive.

Why Priorities Matter

Why is it so important to get our priorities straight? When we follow God’s design, we invite His blessings into our lives. Putting God first means recognizing His power and seeking His wisdom in our relationships. Prioritizing your spouse shows your commitment and deepens your connection. When you keep your marriage strong, you create a stable and loving home for your children.

Final Thoughts

In a world full of distractions, let’s focus on what truly matters: God, your spouse, and your children, in that order. By seeking God first, investing in your marriage, and raising your children in a strong, loving home, you set the stage for a thriving family. As you go about your day, ask for God’s help in keeping your priorities in line and trust Him to bless and sustain your marriage.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, help us to put our relationships in the right order. May we seek Your kingdom first, invest in our marriage, and raise our children in a way that honors You. Give us the wisdom and strength to focus on what truly matters, and may our marriages reflect Your love and grace. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Reflection

Take a moment to think about your current priorities. Are there any changes you need to make to align with what the Bible teaches? Make a commitment to reorder the priorities in your marriage.