No Sloppy Love

Gauguin’s ‘The Vision after the Sermon’ (1888)depicts a group of meditating Breton peasants in white bonnets. On the right, the address they have just heard is portrayed by Jacob wrestling with an angel. The contemplative domesticity contrasts with the deeply flawed patriarch's violent, mysterious, elusive struggle.

The moral dilemmas of modern living require us to throw off our starched white bonnets and wrestle with sweaty, painful discipleship. How can a politician or a financier walk Jesus’ path amid secular negotiation and compromise? How do pastoral leaders guide broken people in the way of holiness amid complicated sexual relationships? How does a missionary support an African or Asian believer facing the demands of family loyalty through ancestor worship? There often does not seem to be an obvious way forward.

These verses give us the prayer we need. The profound affection that Paul feels for the Philippians, with its source in the agape care of Christ, is poured into his constant prayer for them. In sticky discipleship quandaries, it is not a choice between demonstrating love and doing what is right, although superficially, it might seem like that. A pastoral heart craves discernment and wisdom that can only be worked out through devotion to Jesus and a dogged refusal to let go of his compassion in a messy world. It enables us to determine what really matters. We are encouraged to remember that, even if we are wearied and confused in the struggle, as our passion for Christ deepens and grows, our lives will overflow with a godly harvest to the praise of God.

We may disagree with fellow believers on how this works out. We may fail spectacularly or miserably. But perhaps it is in clammy wrestling rather than in clear-cut answers that our engagement with God gives us a deeper understanding of him and his grace-filled ways.

Respond in Prayer

Lord Jesus, we live amid difficult and complicated moral problems. Please give us discernment and wisdom as we serve you. We pray that as we live in fellowship with you, we may learn to have your mind. In your name, we pray, Amen.