Day 1: Share Your Heart and Pray Together

“Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray. Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise. Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven. Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” James 5:13-16

Ah, the beginning stages of a new relationship. There are butterflies in your stomach and excitement in the air as you get to know each other, wondering what the future holds. But there’s also not much trust. That’s because trust is built over time. Fortunately, there are some things you can do to actively build trust in a new relationship.

The first way to build trust in a new relationship is to share your heart.

Communication is key, but who says it can’t be fun? Sharing your heart involves more than just talking; it's about revealing your true self. Swap stories, dreams, and even those slightly embarrassing moments with an open heart. These intimate exchanges create a deeper connection and greater understanding. Make it a habit to share your feelings, fears, and aspirations without holding back or assuming your partner can read your mind. This openness creates a foundation of trust, showing that you value the relationship enough to be vulnerable.

The second way to build trust in a new relationship is to pray together.

Praying together is a powerful way to build a spiritual connection and trust. When you come before God together, you can see each other's vulnerabilities and reliance on His guidance and grace. This shared spiritual practice can be profoundly intimate, as it opens up a space where both of you can express your deepest fears, hopes, and gratitude. By lifting each other up in prayer, you not only support one another but also invite God to be the central part of your relationship. Sharing this intimate part of your spiritual lives can bring you closer and solidify your relationship's foundation in faith.

James 5:16 highlights the importance of this practice when it encourages us to confess our sins to one another and pray for each other. Prayer works! As you pray together, you nurture your spiritual connection and the trust and faith necessary for a thriving relationship.

As you move through your day, consider how you can apply these principles to your relationship. Make time for meaningful conversations where you share your heart openly. Plan moments to pray together, inviting God into the core of your partnership. Creating these intentional times of connection will help build trust over time.