The “Why?”

James 4:17

“If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn’t do it, it is sin for them.”

A lot of people go into dating super casually. They aren’t sure what they want, and because of that, they typically hurt themselves and others in the process. By dating with intention, you can make your dating experience smoother for yourself and the people you date.

Dating with intention helps you…

1. Avoid Wasted Time: When you date with intention, you clearly know what you're looking for in a partner. This clarity means you spend less time on relationships that aren’t right for you.

2. Prevent Heartbreak: Being honest about your intentions from the start can prevent misunderstandings. This openness early on saves you from unmet expectations and potential hurt feelings.

3. Strengthen Your Faith: Including God in your dating life by praying and seeking His guidance strengthens your relationship with Him. It turns dating into an opportunity to trust God and grow spiritually.

By knowing what you want, you avoid spending time on relationships that don't align with your desires. And being upfront about your intentions can prevent misunderstandings and heartbreak down the line. Additionally, including God in your relationship strengthens your faith and helps you make wise decisions. All of this can lead to more fulfilling, respectful, and long-lasting relationships.

Today, as you consider the value of dating with intention, ask yourself if your approach to dating truly reflects your values and faith. Are you clear about what you're looking for in a partner? Do you communicate your expectations and desires honestly from the beginning? Reflect on how including God in your dating decisions can guide you toward relationships that are fulfilling and align with your spiritual beliefs. Remember, dating with intention isn't just about finding the right person; it's about being the right person in the relationship.