WHEN IT'S RIGHT TO CONFUSE PEOPLE 

Have you ever got completely lost going somewhere, even though someone tried to give you clear directions?

How important is a good understanding of the reasons for our faith (apologetics) in our conversations as Christians? Why?

As you read today's verses consider the following about the parables:

Matthew 13:10-11 - Why did Jesus speak in parables? 

Mark 4:33-34 and Matthew 13:34-35 - Did Jesus explain the parables to the crowds?

Matthew 13:10 and John 16:29-30 - What did the disciples begin to think when they first heard Jesus speaking in parables without explaining them? 

Mark 4:13 - Did the use of parables leave the public with no understanding of his messages? (The fact that Jesus was surprised the disciples hadn’t worked out the meaning of the parable implies it was possible to work their meaning out).

Consider why Jesus so often masked his messages with parables when speaking in public places?  

CONSIDER: 

Have you ever had a lengthy conversation with a non-believer about why you believe Christianity to be a rational belief? What did you discuss, and how did it go?

In your experience, does giving rational arguments for the Christian faith result in people taking a step closer to Jesus - or not? Did it make a difference for you?

If there is a difference in responses to sound arguments, why might some people come closer to faith through hearing them, while others become more firmly entrenched in their existing views?

What is the benefit of using a story, illustration or question – rather than a statement?

There has been a significant Christian influence in history - resulting in the high levels of equality freedom, care and prosperity we now enjoy. In places where we are unwise to make statements, stories from history can often communicate powerfully. How could you increase your knowledge of these amazing cultural stories?

REFLECTION:

While it is sometimes wise to avoid making statements, it is also important that we do know why we believe what we believe. See 1 Peter 3:15. The Apostle Paul was able to reason with all manner of people, including Jews and non-Jews. (E.g. Acts 17:2-3, Acts 17:17). 

How could you learn more about the reasons for believing the Christian faith – so you are better able to answer sincere questions?

What is your next action step?

PRAYER POINTS:  

• For growing wisdom in conversations – to engage the interested, while only seeking to intrigue the disinterested.
• For opportunities to engage with others in meaningful conversations.