The Importance of Being Relational

Russians are considered very relational. Along with the indescribable Russian “soul,” being relational is a major part of the national character. Much of this is bred by the history and climate of Russia. Struggle, collectivism, Stalin’s repressions, war tragedies, and hardships have all marked the nation.

Russians like to entertain at home, where they sit around with guests and talk or sometimes sing for hours. For example, in Russia it is important to develop a personal relationship before proceeding to business negotiations. Building trust and understanding enhances the relationship in the difficult current business environment.

It is very common in Russia for friends to visit without any special notice, and they are welcome to talk and share meals. And when in need, you will surely get help.

In much the same way—and to a greater extent—personal relationships with God and other Christians are essential in the life of every believer. God’s Word makes it clear that He wants us to share our lives and blessings with others (Hebrews 13:16). 

This characteristic was evident from the very beginning of the church, seen in Acts 2:42. 

In Acts 5:12-14 we see prayer, worship, and breaking bread with fellow believers. This is an example for every Christian to follow and is especially needed if we are to reach the next generation. Forming good personal relationships is extremely important to young people. We can help them make these connections by hosting social events, youth group parties, community outreaches, and charity activities.

We know that the majority of Russian youth use the internet daily. But being technological savvy is not the only way to connect with young people. The church has something very attractive to offer to the young generation—true community.

Studies show that children and adolescents are searching for ways to belong and be accepted. They need someone who believes in them, cares about them, and is willing to listen to them. They are eager to express their passion and to be useful. All these things can be accomplished through relationships. Churches that create such opportunities become fascinating places for youth to attend, make good friends, and grow in their Christian faith.

Prayer Requests 

· Pray that churches in Russia would focus on discipleship.

· Pray that churches encourage and equip Christian young people to share their faith with their peers and that they make evangelistic strategies intensely relational.