Decide to Thrive: Youth EditionSample

The Relationship Decision: Share Your Heart with Trusted People

Authentic relationships are built on vulnerability—a foundation that requires courage and intentionality. It’s natural to want to keep our guard up, protecting ourselves from the possibility of judgment, rejection, or misunderstanding. However, true and meaningful connection only happens when we take the risk to be open and honest with others. Vulnerability doesn’t mean sharing everything with everyone or disregarding boundaries; rather, it means allowing ourselves to be real and transparent with those who are trustworthy and have earned that level of intimacy.

Vulnerability is a two-way street. As we take the step to share our hearts, we also need to create a safe and compassionate space for others to do the same. This means listening without judgment, offering support, and holding their confidence with care. In these moments of mutual openness, relationships deepen, trust is strengthened, and a foundation is built for greater understanding and empathy.

When we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we invite God’s healing and grace into our relationships. By being real about our struggles, joys, and fears, we open the door to deeper intimacy and connection. Vulnerability has the power to break down walls, replace isolation with belonging, and foster a sense of community that reflects God’s love. Today, consider how you can practice vulnerability in your relationships—both by opening up and by being a safe haven for someone else to share their heart. Through this, you’ll experience the beauty and richness of truly authentic relationships.

Reflection: Who is someone you feel you can share anything with? How can you work to be more vulnerable with those around you?