The Art of Making Disciplesنموونە

Never Leave Him Where You Find Him

Yesterday, we reflected on how Jesus met others where they were, ensuring no one was left behind. Today, we’ll delve into his further instruction: never leave someone where you find them.

Scripture provides numerous examples of this principle. Jesus met people in their current state but never left them there. Each person’s journey is unique, and as we disciple others, we must remember this. However, Jesus never condoned sin. He constantly challenged people to take a step forward on the narrow path.

We’re called to meet others with grace and love, but we must also encourage growth. Leaving someone where we find them isn’t true love. If a man is stuck, our love for him should compel us to help him move forward.

Let’s revisit the metaphor of running. When a man steps out of his comfort zone and begins running, it’s a process. The first step is the decision to start. From there, growth happens through small, consistent steps. Expecting to run a marathon on day one is unrealistic and discouraging. Instead, each step builds upon the last, and with time and consistency, a marathon becomes achievable.

Discipleship mirrors this process. As disciple-makers, we’re called to encourage positive steps toward a deeper relationship with Christ—one step at a time. Never stop encouraging those steps! Like running, the momentum grows when someone runs alongside. Be that running partner, helping him deepen his relationship with Christ and find his stride.

While we must meet people where they are, leaving them there can be harmful. True discipleship challenges us to help others grow and move forward.

If we’re honest, sometimes leaving someone where they are reflects our reluctance to move. Encouraging someone else to take a step means we must also be willing to step forward ourselves.

There’s a tension to manage between condoning and condemning. It’s challenging to strike a perfect balance, but awareness helps us navigate this. We can ensure our actions encourage growth rather than stagnation by staying mindful.

When a man desires to grow, be ready to run with him. Encourage him to grow and not remain still. Discipleship is about moving forward together, one step at a time.