Five Things to Look for in a Future Wifeናሙና

Marriage is a partnership, and you need someone who will stand by your side through thick and thin. A supportive wife is not just a cheerleader, but also a “helper” who can offer constructive feedback and encourage you to grow. The original Hebrew for the word “helper” means, "to be strong where the other is weak." I love this!

Your wife should be willing to share in your dreams and work alongside you to achieve them. Look for someone who complements your strengths and weaknesses, creating a balanced team.

In 1983, I faced a crossroads. I had been running from God for years and now I had to make a decision. Since I was 12, I knew God wanted me in ministry. At first, I was excited, but over the years, I began to bargain with God. I didn’t feel qualified in any way to take that step. I finally realized that I could not outrun God! Nancy knew my struggle over the years. I told her that I had to stop running from God and submit to His will for my life, but that would mean our life would change: finances, going to seminary, all those things. She looked at me and said the words that made all the difference: “I’m all in. Wherever God leads you, I am right by your side.”

You may never be faced with a crossroads like this, but you want a wife who will support and stand beside you in whatever God asks you to do.

Prayer:

Father, I ask you to lead me to the woman you have for me who will support me in everything you may call me to do. In Jesus' name. Amen