Patience & ParentingSample
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Setting an Example
“Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.” Proverbs 22:6
The way we handle conflict with our children is important. None of us wants to hurt our children when we're impatient. Nobody plans to get angry and say things they regret. We all want great relationships with our kids! That’s why you’re reading this right now. But on top of building a healthy relationship with them, we must recognize that we are setting an example for them. How we handle conflict with them will pass on to them and affect how they handle it with others. If we act out of impatience, anger, and frustration, that’s how they’ll be responding in their relationships as well. Is that how we want them to handle conflict in the future?
As followers of Jesus, we don’t just want our kids to be well-behaved because of our example; we want them to know and follow Jesus. When we are patient with them, we set an example for them every time. Ephesians 4:2 says, “Always be humble and gentle. Be patient, allowing for each other’s faults because of your love.” Our patience is one way that points our kids to Jesus. And in return, when they are patient with others because of our example, they’ll be pointing them to Jesus as well. Learning to be patient with our kids is much more than just learning how to deal with them. When we are patient parents, we are exemplifying God’s love, we are showing our kids that we care enough for them to listen to their perspective, we are approaching conflict with understanding rather than anger, and we are an example of Jesus for them, which will multiply in their relationships.
Questions to think about:
How will the way I handle conflict with my kids today influence how they handle conflict themselves?
How many people might come to know Jesus because of the patience I have shown to my kids?
Prayer:
God, I know I have the mostimportantjob in the world,being a parent to my children. Please remind me how important my job is and how positively I can influence
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About this Plan
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As parents, we all want to be the best version of ourselves with our kids. But having real patience can be one of the hardest parts of parenting - no matter how old your children are. In this Five-Day Bible Reading Plan, we'll explore how to practice patience in the face of frustration as a parent and why it's so important that we learn to value patience as a virtue.
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