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Free Of Me: Why Life Is Better When It’s Not All About You

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Angisoze ngamkhohlwa ubaba ebikezela ukuthi ngelinye ilanga ngiyophola kakhulu kuye. "Akunakwenzeka!" Ngabhikisha. Ngangineminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ubudala futhi ngicabanga ukuthi abazali bami basilele emuva. Ngemva kweminyaka engu-7, ngabonisa ubaba ukuthi wayeqinisile ngokuphatheka kabi nganoma yini abazali bami ababeyenza. 

Iningi lethu liyakhula kulesi sigaba sentsha yethu, kodwa asikhulisi ukuthambekela ukulawula isithombe sethu. Eqinisweni, kuvame ukushuba futhi kube umonakalo nakakhulu emshadweni nasekukhuliseni izingane. Lapho umngani wethu womshado noma izingane zethu ziba izandiso zethu, ziphoqeleka ukuba zithwale umthwalo okwakungewona owazo ukuba ziwuthwale. Kungubuthi obuguqukayo ebudlelwaneni.

Ukuphatha izithombe kungenye yezindlela esiphatha ngayo umndeni njengesibuko. Kunokuba sibone ukuthi bangobani, badingani, nokuthi singabathanda kanjani, sibona izifiso zethu kanye nokwesaba kwethu. Kwesinye isikhathi size sigcine sesiwasebenzisa ngokwenzuzo yethu esiyibonayo.

Esinye sezinyathelo zokuqala zokugwema ukuphathwa isithombe ukusiqamba. Ukwazi ngalo mkhuba kunamandla, ngoba uzoqala ukukubona uma usukwenza. 

Inhloso yomndeni wakho akukhona ukukwenza ukhululeke. Kuwukukhulula ukuba uthande uNkulunkulu kanye nezwe kakhulu ngoba ubungeke ukwenze uwedwa. NjengamaKristu, lokho kuyinselelo yethu nobizo lwethu. Umndeni awukaze uhloselwe ukuba yisidlali kumdlalo wokuphatha izithombe, ngoba bekungahlosiwe ukuthi kube ngathi. Okwethu, yebo. Mayelana nathi, cha. Uma imindeni yethu imayelana nokuthanda uNkulunkulu nabanye esikhundleni sokugcina isithombe, noma ukuziqhathanisa nabanye, noma ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi izingane zethu zihlala phambili, akusadingeki siqhubeke sikulwela. Kuphinde kukhulule izingane zethu emthwalweni obekwe umphakathi wokuzibheka. Lapho simemela izingane enjongweni enkulu kakhulu kunazo, ingcindezi incane kakhulu. 

Kunobizo olukhulu kunomndeni. Umndeni ukahle futhi muhle futhi umiswe nguNkulunkulu, futhi ungaba yingxenye yalolu bizo, kodwa awuzange uhloselwe ukuba isiphetho ngokwawo. Lowo mgomo—hhayi umshado wethu ophelele noma izingane eziphumelelayo—uhlala uphakeme. 


Kukuziphi izici zempilo yakho olingeka kakhulu “ukuphatha” isithombe sendlela obukeka ngayo—umshado, ukudetha, ubungani, umsebenzi, umzali, inkundla yezokuxhumana?


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Free Of Me: Why Life Is Better When It’s Not All About You

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