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Imingcele iyasichaza. Ichaza lokho engiyikho nalokho engingekhona mina. Umngcele ungikhombisa lapho ngiphetha khona futhi omunye umuntu aqale, okungiholela emuzweni wokuzazi.
Ukwazi engiyikho nokuba ngowakwami nokuba nesibopho ngakho kunginika inkululeko. Uma ngazi ukuthi igceke lami liqala futhi ligcina kuphi, ngikhululekile ukwenza lokho engikuthandayo. Ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngempilo yami kuvula ukukhetha okuningi okwahlukene. Nokho, uma “ngingeyena” ukuphila kwami, ukukhetha kwami kanye nokukhetha kwami kuba nomkhawulo kakhulu.
Cabanga ukuthi bekungaba yindida kanjani uma othile ekutshela ukuthi “uqaphele le ndawo ngokucophelela, ngoba ngizokubeka icala ngalokho okwenzeka lapha,” bese engakutsheli imingcele yendawo. Noma bengakunikezi izindlela zokuvikela impahla. Lokhu ngeke kudide nje kuphela kodwa futhi kungaba yingozi.
Yilokhu kanye okwenzeka kithi ngokomzwelo nangokomoya. uNkulunkulu waklama umhlaba lapho sonke siphila “ngaphakathi” kwethu; okungukuthi, sihlala emiphefumulweni yethu, futhi sinomthwalo wemfanelo wezinto ezakha “thina.” “Yilowo nalowo inhliziyo iyawazi umunyu wayo, futhi akukho muntu ongahlanganyela intokozo yayo” (IzAga 14:10). Kufanele sibhekane nalokho okusemphefumulweni wethu, futhi imingcele isisiza ukuba sichaze ukuthi kuyini lokho. Uma singaboniswa imingcele, noma sifundiswa imingcele engalungile, sibhekene nobuhlungu obukhulu.
IBhayibheli lisitshela ngokucacile ukuthi imingcele yethu iyini nokuthi singayivikela kanjani, kodwa ngokuvamile imindeni yethu, noma obunye ubudlelwano bangaphambili, buyasidida ngamapharamitha ethu.
Ngaphezu kokusikhombisa ukuthi yini esibophezelekile kukho, imingcele isisiza ukuthi sichaze ukuthi yini engekho empahleni yethu nokuthi yini esingenasibopho ngayo. Ngokwesibonelo, asinasibopho kwabanye abantu. Akukho lapho siyalwa khona ukuba “silawule okunye,” nakuba sichitha isikhathi esiningi namandla sizama ukukuthola!
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