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Isifungo Somkhuleko

Jason no Kristy bangabangani abakhulu ubeshadile iminyaka eyi-10. Bavame ukuba semgwaqweni nezingane zabo ezingama-hound nezingane ezine, beza emanzini, ezintabeni, nasemndenini. 

Kristy:

"Umoya oNgcwele siyakumema kulo mshado. Siyakudinga kulo mshado. Sikumema emshadweni wethu, ku-honeymoon yethu, nasempilweni yethu lapho sibuyela ekhaya ndawonye." Konke kuhlelwe ngosuku lwethu lomshado. Ngemuva kwalokho umyeni wami omusha wenza okuthile engahlelile. Wahlebela lo mthandazo ongacabanganga e-altare. Bengingazi ukuthi lo mkhuleko uzohamba kanjani ngezikhathi nezimo ukuletha inkululeko ethe xaxa nesibusiso kunalokho ebesikulindele. Yizikhathi ezinjengalezi, lapho uthola amandla omkhuleko, lapho uphefumulelwe ukuthi uphakamise izinto eziza kuqala kuwe ubonge uNkulunkulu. 

Lapho ngithandaza kakhulu, ngibona ngokwengeziwe ukuthi uNkulunkulu akahambisi impilo yakho ngokuqonde ngqo emithandazweni yakho. Kodwa-ke, lapho uthandaza kakhulu, kulapho uqiniseka khona ukuthi usebenzela okuhle kwakho njengoba engena ngaphakathi nangaphakathi kwempilo yakho. Ukunquma ukuthandaza — kokubili ndawonye nangokuhlukana — ngeke kwenze umshado wenu ube lula noma uphelele, kodwa uzowenza uphelele. Cishe iminyaka eyishumi, umthandazo wethu uzwakala kanjena, "Nkulunkulu, yini inhloso yakho ngomshado wethu?" 

Jason:

Njengoba uKristy asho, ngathembisa ukwenza umthandazo ube yingxenye yomshado wethu kusenesikhathi. Kepha, imithandazo yami eminingi igcwele imininingwane ngoNkulunkulu. "Heyi Nkulunkulu, uhlobo lukaKristy lokunginika isikhathi esinzima namuhla," noma, "Ngingumuntu okhonqayo namuhla. Ungasiza? ” Noma mhlawumbe, “Isifuba somoya sabafana siyadlala, indlu idinga umsebenzi, iveni yethu idinga umakhenikha, nemali icinene njengamanje, Nkulunkulu. Ngabe ubukwazi lokho? ” Ungangizwa kabi, ngiyambonga nami ngezinto, kepha ngisho nokubonga kwami ​​kugcwele imininingwane. "Nkulunkulu, le nto naleyo phrojekthi nalobu budlelwano buyasebenza - siyabonga ngalokho." Uyazi ukuthi ngiboneni muva nje? Umthandazo kuncane kakhulu ekwenzeni uNkulunkulu azi ngempilo yakho, futhi kuningi kakhulu okwenza impilo yakho imazi kakhulu Yena. Ngakho-ke, manje ngithandazela ukwenza umshado wami, umndeni wami, umsebenzi wami, ngisho nezinto zami zimazi kakhulu Yena. Ngisamtshela uNkulunkulu ukuthi impilo iqhubeka kanjani ngoba sisondelene futhi ngiyathanda ukwabelana ngempilo yami Naye. Kepha manje lapho ngithandaza, ngibuye ngivumele iqiniso Lakhe, ubukhona Bakhe, nothando lwaKhe lukhulume empilweni yami ngokuthi ungubani. Kanjani? Ngokulalela. Ngokuzayo lapho uthandaza, chitha isikhathi esiningi ulalele njengoba ukhuluma. Futhi chitha amagama amaningi ukumhlonipha njengoba umazisa. 

Thandaza: Uma ushadile, thandaza nowakwakho namuhla ngokuzwakalayo bese ninquma ukuthi nizothandaza nini ngokulandelayo. Uma ungashadile, manje isikhathi esifanele sokwenza umthandazo ube yingxenye ejwayelekile yempilo yakho. 

Funda kabanzi ngemibono yokuhlonipha uNkulunkulu ngomshado, ubulili, ukuthandana nokungashadi.