Injabulo! Emhlabeni Wakho! Ukubalwa KukaKhisimusiIsampula
Ukuzibandakanya kungenye yezikhathi ezijabulisa kakhulu ezimpilweni zabashadikazi abasebasha. Yisikhathi sempilo lapho amahora achithwa uphupha ngayo yonke injabulo ezayo. Yisikhathi sobunye empilweni yomuntu lapho uthando lubonakala luphelele futhi luthembekile.
Indaba yothando lukaJoseph noMary ibiphazanyiswe ngokwesabekayo nangokungachazeki. Umariya ukhulelwe futhi uJosefa uyazi ukuthi akayena ubaba. Ngokuqinisekile uJosefa kumele ukuthi wayezibuza ukuthi uMariya wayephuliwe yini, yize wayephikelela buthule ukuthi ingane esibelethweni sakhe yayibekwe lapho nguMoya oNgcwele.
Ingabe uJosefa wayezibuza ukuthi uMariya ukhohlisiwe yini? Yikuphi okunye okungenzeka ukuthi kuchazwe lesi sigameko esiyinhlekelele? Lokho okwake kwathandeka manje sekuhlanganiswe nokubi. Lokho okwakulindelwe manje kuyesabeka.
Ngokusobala uJoseph akazange ayikholwe le ndaba kaMariya ngoba icebo lakhe kwakungukuthi amshiye ngasese. Lokhu bekungukukhetha okuhle kakhulu futhi okunothando kakhulu kwensizwa etholakala ebunzimeni bokukhaphela. Wayengavumela ukuthi akhandwe ngamatshe ingane ingakazalwa. Noma, ngemuva kokubeletha, wayengavumela ukuthi yena nengane bakhandwe ngamatshe. Ukumthumela ukuthi angaphinde azwakale futhi kwakuwukuzinikela kokugcina kothando ohlangothini lukaJoseph.
Akunakwenzeka ngisho ukucabanga ukuphoxeka kukaJosefa ngoNkulunkulu nangomuntu ayemthanda kakhulu emhlabeni. Umary wayekade engumhlaba wakhe futhi manje wayengasophinde ambone. Ngabe uJoseph wayekholelwa ukuthi intombazane yamaphupho akhe yayimnikeze enye indoda ubuntombi bakhe?
Ujoseph wayengakufanele lokhu kukhashelwa noma lokhu kudabuka kwenhliziyo. Lokho “okumfanele” bekuwusuku lomshado olugcwele injabulo nesithembiso sothando olusha.
Manje, mhlawumbe, isithunzi sikaJoseph sasingcoliswe emigwaqweni yaseNazaretha futhi abangane bakhe besebancane babeshosholoza ngemuva kwakhe.
Ujoseph kwadingeka abhekane nabazali bakaMary nabazali bakhe uqobo. Yize engenacala, kwakusekhona ukuthi babengeke bamkholwe. Kwakungekho ukujivaza kwamaholide kwale nsizwa edumele, enenhliziyo ebuhlungu.
Ngabe ubhekene nokudumala okukhulu ngoKhisimusi kulo nyaka? Umkhuleko wami ngawe ukuthi uvumele isethembiso sikaKhisimusi sifiphaze amaqiniso abuhlungu empilweni yakho. Ungavumeli uKhisimusi ukuthi uchazwe ngokudumala kwakho, kodwa vumela ukudumala kwakho kushintshwe unomphela ngenxa kaKhisimusi.
Indaba yothando lukaJoseph noMary ibiphazanyiswe ngokwesabekayo nangokungachazeki. Umariya ukhulelwe futhi uJosefa uyazi ukuthi akayena ubaba. Ngokuqinisekile uJosefa kumele ukuthi wayezibuza ukuthi uMariya wayephuliwe yini, yize wayephikelela buthule ukuthi ingane esibelethweni sakhe yayibekwe lapho nguMoya oNgcwele.
Ingabe uJosefa wayezibuza ukuthi uMariya ukhohlisiwe yini? Yikuphi okunye okungenzeka ukuthi kuchazwe lesi sigameko esiyinhlekelele? Lokho okwake kwathandeka manje sekuhlanganiswe nokubi. Lokho okwakulindelwe manje kuyesabeka.
Ngokusobala uJoseph akazange ayikholwe le ndaba kaMariya ngoba icebo lakhe kwakungukuthi amshiye ngasese. Lokhu bekungukukhetha okuhle kakhulu futhi okunothando kakhulu kwensizwa etholakala ebunzimeni bokukhaphela. Wayengavumela ukuthi akhandwe ngamatshe ingane ingakazalwa. Noma, ngemuva kokubeletha, wayengavumela ukuthi yena nengane bakhandwe ngamatshe. Ukumthumela ukuthi angaphinde azwakale futhi kwakuwukuzinikela kokugcina kothando ohlangothini lukaJoseph.
Akunakwenzeka ngisho ukucabanga ukuphoxeka kukaJosefa ngoNkulunkulu nangomuntu ayemthanda kakhulu emhlabeni. Umary wayekade engumhlaba wakhe futhi manje wayengasophinde ambone. Ngabe uJoseph wayekholelwa ukuthi intombazane yamaphupho akhe yayimnikeze enye indoda ubuntombi bakhe?
Ujoseph wayengakufanele lokhu kukhashelwa noma lokhu kudabuka kwenhliziyo. Lokho “okumfanele” bekuwusuku lomshado olugcwele injabulo nesithembiso sothando olusha.
Manje, mhlawumbe, isithunzi sikaJoseph sasingcoliswe emigwaqweni yaseNazaretha futhi abangane bakhe besebancane babeshosholoza ngemuva kwakhe.
Ujoseph kwadingeka abhekane nabazali bakaMary nabazali bakhe uqobo. Yize engenacala, kwakusekhona ukuthi babengeke bamkholwe. Kwakungekho ukujivaza kwamaholide kwale nsizwa edumele, enenhliziyo ebuhlungu.
Ngabe ubhekene nokudumala okukhulu ngoKhisimusi kulo nyaka? Umkhuleko wami ngawe ukuthi uvumele isethembiso sikaKhisimusi sifiphaze amaqiniso abuhlungu empilweni yakho. Ungavumeli uKhisimusi ukuthi uchazwe ngokudumala kwakho, kodwa vumela ukudumala kwakho kushintshwe unomphela ngenxa kaKhisimusi.
Mayelana naloluHlelo
Ukhisimusi yisikhathi lapho sonke kufanele silindele ukungena kwezulu emhlabeni wethu onothuli, ongcolile. Ukhisimusi yisikhathi esisikhumbuza sonke ukuthi izimangaliso ziyenzeka ngempela, imithandazo iyaphendulwa nokuthi izulu liyimpendulo eyodwa nje. Ngokuhlangenwe nakho kukaMariya, uJoseph, uZakariya no-Elizabeth, umalusi namadoda ahlakaniphileyo, lokhu kuzinikela kuhlola ukubaluleka kukaKhisimusi wokuqala nokuthi uhlangana kanjani nempilo yethu ngayinye namuhla.
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