Relationship ResonanceIsampula

"Introduction"

Have you ever felt discouraged? Like nobody has time for you or understands your situation? Or that you have little to contribute to a world that seems cold and unapproachable? I have. And unfortunately during these moments in my life, I have often made other people feel just as bad if not worse. Sometimes intentionally, but often my actions were unintentional.  My pain and frustrations were causing more pain and frustration for others and creating a string of poor relationships. 

This pattern continued until I reluctantly accepted an invitation to attend Life.Church where I soon learned how to have a relationship with God. I always considered myself to be a Christian, but I had no idea about the most basic content of the Bible. As I would listen to the sermons, I became fascinated with how relationally based the Bible is—and our pastor would often preach that religion is about rules but Christianity is about relationships!

Not only did my relationship with God become better, but so did the ones with my wife, children, bosses, employees, friends and strangers. The blessings suddenly started pouring in from every direction.  I was experiencing new levels of joy and happiness. Even in times of opposition and conflict, I had more feelings of peace and security. I gained refuge from trusting God, and support  from all the new people in my life. 

I now try to resonate these positive actions and feelings with those around me. I do this by encouraging, making quality time moments, showing understanding , investing myself, and by physical touch. I use the acronym EQUIP to help me stay on track and incorporate love into all my relationships. 

I challenge you to take a 5 day EQUIPped journey into your relationships. But for today, meditate on the following verse and think about the impact you have on all of those around you. 

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