Thola i AppUngabathanda Kanjani Omakhelwane BakhoIsampula
Izihambi
KuLuka 10, uJesu ulandisa indaba yendoda eyahlaselwa yashiywa kucatshangwa ukuthi ifile eceleni komgwaqo. Umpristi wabona le ndoda wabe esewela umgwaqo ukuze ayigweme. Omunye owayesebenza ethempelini wenza okufanayo. Kodwa, umSamariya—owayedelelwa amaJuda amaningi—wayibona le ndoda futhi wayoyisiza. Kungase kwanele ukusiza indoda elimele ukuba ivuke futhi uqiniseke ukuthi iphilile. Kodwa, lomSamariya olungileyo wenza ngaphezu kwalokho ngokunakekela amanxeba akhe, wamyisa endlini yezihambi edolobheni eliseduze, wabe eseshiyela umgcini wendlu yezihambi imali ukuze aqhubeke emnakekela. LomSamariya wayengamazi lo muntu lapho efika kuye, kodwa wakhetha ukuthanda lo makhelwane ongaziwa muntu.
Sidlula kubantu esingabazi nsuku zonke. Ngokuvamisile siyalingeka ukuba singamnaki umuntu ojwayelekile, ngoba asifuni ukuphazamiseka, noma asicabangi ukuthi singenza umehluko. Ukuze sithande abantu esingabazi, kuzodingeka sithandaze nsuku zonke futhi sicele kuNkulunkulu amehlo okubona abantu abadinga ukuthintwa Nguye.
Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa ezisebenzayo zokubonisa uthando kubantu esingabazi:
Yenza into eyodwa encane. Uma uhlangana nabantu, awazi ukuthi kwenzakalani ezimpilweni zabo. Bangase babe nosuku oluhle kakhulu, noma kungenzeka ukuthi basanda kuthola izindaba ezimbi kakhulu mayelana nokuphila kwabo. Mhlawumbe uNkulunkulu uyasivumela ukuba siqaphele umama onezingane ezingaziphathi kahle esitolo, noma sibona umuntu obonakala enokuncane kakhulu. Ukumamatheka okulula noma isipho esincane esivela kithi singenza usuku lwabo.
Yiba namehlo okubona. Sihlangana nabantu abaningi esingabazi usuku ngalunye—ezitolo, ezindaweni zokudlela, esontweni, nakwezinye izindawo ezihlukahlukene. Nakuba singenabo ubuhlobo nomuntu siqu, sisengabathanda njengomakhelwane wethu. Ukubonisa umusa kubantu ongabazi kuwuhlobo lwenkonzo olumangalisayo.
Kunezindlela eziningi ngempela zokuthanda omakhelwane esingabazi. Eqinisweni, lokhu kungase kube enye yezinto eziyiqiniso ngempela esizenzayo, ngoba uma singabazi abantu futhi sikhetha ukubathanda ngokoqobo, abasoze bakwazi ukusikhokhela. Mhlawumbe ukhokhela ikhofi lomuntu osemuva kwakho, unikele ngegazi elizozuzisa labo abagula okungalapheki, noma unikeze ukudla kothile kwelinye izwe. Lezi zenzo ezilula ziyizindlela ezimangalisayo zokuthi sithande abantu esingabazi.
Mayelana naloluHlelo
Ezweni lapho kunokuhlukana okungaka nokungezwani, sonke singaphila kangcono uma sifunda ukuthanda abanye—ngisho noma kungenazinkinga noma kungakhululekile. Kulolu hlelo lwezinsuku ezingu-4, sizoxoxa ngokuthi omakhelwane bethu bangobani nokuthi sibathande kanjani.
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