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Ubunye Budinga Uzwelo

Umhlaba esiphila kuwo ungadala uqhekeko. Kwesinye isikhathi asivumelani ngezindaba ezinkulu—njengepolitiki—kodwa futhi singazithola sikhetha izinto ezincane kakhulu, njengamaqembu ezemidlalo nokudla. Singathola indlela yokungavumelani cishe kuzo zonke izifundo.

Kodwa, lapho siqinisa imisipha yethu yozwelo, ubunye buba ngokoqobo ebudlelwaneni obusezimpilweni zethu kanye nokuhlukahluka kwamasiko ethu. Ukuze sichaze indlela uzwela oluletha ngayo ubunye, ake sibheke izindinyana ezintathu eziseBhayibhelini:

Ngiyanincenga, bazalwane, egameni leNkosi yethu uJesu Kristu ukuba nonke nikhulume izwi libe linye, kungabikho ukwahlukana phakathi kwenu, kepha nipheleliswe ngokuphelele nibumbane emqondweni nasemcabangweni. 1 KwabaseKorinte 1:10 NIV

Ngakho-ke uma ninenkuthazo evela ebunyeni noKristu, uma kukhona induduzo yothando lwakhe, uma kukhona ukuhlanganyela koMoya, uma kukhona ububele nesihawu, gcwalisani ukuthokoza kwenu ngokuba nhliziyonye, ninothando lunye, nibe munye emoyeni namqondo munye. KwabaseFilipi 2:1-2 NIV

Elokugcina, yibani nhliziyonye nonke, nihawukelane, nithandane, nihawukelane, nithobeke. 1 KaPetru 3:8 NIV

Ifana ngani le miBhalo emithathu?

Bonke bakhuluma ngobunye emqondweni, nokuba nomqondo ofanayo.

Ngakho, ingabe lokho kusho ukuthi kufanele sivumelane nawo wonke umuntu emhlabeni kukho konke? Akunjalo neze. Sonke sinokukhetha kanye nezifiso ezingeke zihambisane nawo wonke umuntu. Futhi masingakhohlwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu usenze sahluke kakhulu! Kodwa, singafuna ukugcina isithombe esikhulu siseqhulwini. Yilokho ukuba nomqondo ofanayo. Ukuba nomqondo ofanayo kusho ukuthi u...

...befuna “ukuma ezicathulweni zabo” ukufunda mayelana nolwazi lwabo.
...ihlose “ukungena ezingqondweni zabo” ukuqonda umbono wabo.
...ukulwela “ukuzibeka endaweni yabo” ukuze ucabange ukuthi bazizwa kanjani.

Uma senza lokho, indlela esiphatha ngayo nesisabela ngayo kuyashintsha. Sibabona njengomuntu onemizwa yangempela hhayi nje umuntu esifuna ukuqophisana naye. Izinkolelo nezifiso zethu azishintshi kuzo zonke izingxoxo, kodwa siqala ukubona abantu ngendlela entsha, futhi mhlawumbe sibambe ukuthi kungani bezizwa futhi bakholwe abakwenzayo.

Ngakho-ke, masifune ukuphila nabanye ngozwelo—hhayi nje bona, kodwa nathi. Ukuhlala ngokuhlukana nokuxabana nabanye kusiphuca sonke. Ukufuna, ukuhlosisa, nokulwela ukuqonda umbono wothile akusho ukuthi sinomqondo obuthakathaka. Empeleni kukhombisa amandla ethu.