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“Uthando Lwaphakade”
Usuku lonke lwayizolo, umyeni wami othandekayo wangibuza, “Uyaphila? Ubonakala uphansi ngokuthile.” Indoda enothando. Uyangazi. Bengingakadaluli lutho kuye, kodwa akubalulekanga. Uyabazi ubuso bami, ukukhuluma kwami, ukububula kwami, nokukhuluma komzimba wami. Angase angakwazi ukufunda ingqondo yami, kodwa angabikezela kahle lokho engikucabangayo kunoma yisiphi isimo. Okubaluleke kakhulu, uyakhathalela futhi ngeke angivumele ngihambe nginganakwanga.
Ngemva kokuba izingane sezilele, sasihlala phansi ukuze sinciphise ukucindezeleka kwethu ebusuku (uhlelo lwethu lwe-TV esiluthandayo kanye nokunye okusithokozisayo). Akakwazanga ukukuyeka. Wabona ukuthi kukhona okungibambile wafuna ngikhululeke. Wabuza imibuzo efanele nje ukuze angisize ngehlise umthwalo osindayo wenhliziyo yami. Konke engangikubambe kwaqina emqondweni wami kwaphuma phandle, futhi impendulo yakhe yayiphelele. “Woza lapha”, esho enginyakazisa engisondeza kuye. Wangibamba lapho; ikhanda lami phezu kwesifuba sakhe, izingalo zakhe zingithandele. Kwathi ngemva kwemizuzu embalwa wathi, “ubalulekile”. (Kuhle, ukukhala okubi.)
Ngezinye izikhathi ukuphila kuzwakala njengalokho okuwubuciko eokuyigugu okulenga (noma ekwake kwalengiswa) efrijini yakho; inqwaba yemibhalo enemibala egqamile. Kuhle, kodwa kunzima ukuthola ukuthi kufanele kube yini. Kuningi futhi kuqinile futhi kuyakhungathekisa kancane. Ngisho nezinkathi zonyaka ezingcono kakhulu nezithela kakhulu zingakufica ungalindele. Kunzima ukwazi ukuthi uziphatha kanjani zonke lezo zithelo! Ngezinkathi zokulinda, izinkathi ezomile, izinkathi zobumnyama—lapho usukhohliwe ukuthi ungubani nokuthi ungokabani—uJesu ufuna ukuthi kuwe, “Ubalulekile”.
Kududuza kakhulu futhi kunethemba elikhulu ukwazi ukuthi noma ngabe isizini, into eyodwa eyohlala iyiqiniso. Into eyodwa ayisoze yashintsha. UJesu uyidwala elithembekile ongancika kulo.
IzAga 3:5 zithi, “Methembe ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho. Beka kuye konke okusindayo.”
Ungathembela Kuye nokuhlakanipha Kwakhe ukukhanyisa indlela yakho. Noma ngabe izimo zakho zimnandi noma zibuhlungu, uyinhloso yakho. Uzokukhombisa ukuthi ungubani. Uma konke okubonayo kuyimibhalo eqoshiwe ekhasini, Ubona umsebenzi wobuciko oqediwe. Unganciki kokwakho ukuqonda okulinganiselwe. Themba ukuhlakanipha Kwakhe okungapheli. Thembela Othandweni Lwakhe Lwaphakade.
Usuku lonke lwayizolo, umyeni wami othandekayo wangibuza, “Uyaphila? Ubonakala uphansi ngokuthile.” Indoda enothando. Uyangazi. Bengingakadaluli lutho kuye, kodwa akubalulekanga. Uyabazi ubuso bami, ukukhuluma kwami, ukububula kwami, nokukhuluma komzimba wami. Angase angakwazi ukufunda ingqondo yami, kodwa angabikezela kahle lokho engikucabangayo kunoma yisiphi isimo. Okubaluleke kakhulu, uyakhathalela futhi ngeke angivumele ngihambe nginganakwanga.
Ngemva kokuba izingane sezilele, sasihlala phansi ukuze sinciphise ukucindezeleka kwethu ebusuku (uhlelo lwethu lwe-TV esiluthandayo kanye nokunye okusithokozisayo). Akakwazanga ukukuyeka. Wabona ukuthi kukhona okungibambile wafuna ngikhululeke. Wabuza imibuzo efanele nje ukuze angisize ngehlise umthwalo osindayo wenhliziyo yami. Konke engangikubambe kwaqina emqondweni wami kwaphuma phandle, futhi impendulo yakhe yayiphelele. “Woza lapha”, esho enginyakazisa engisondeza kuye. Wangibamba lapho; ikhanda lami phezu kwesifuba sakhe, izingalo zakhe zingithandele. Kwathi ngemva kwemizuzu embalwa wathi, “ubalulekile”. (Kuhle, ukukhala okubi.)
Ngezinye izikhathi ukuphila kuzwakala njengalokho okuwubuciko eokuyigugu okulenga (noma ekwake kwalengiswa) efrijini yakho; inqwaba yemibhalo enemibala egqamile. Kuhle, kodwa kunzima ukuthola ukuthi kufanele kube yini. Kuningi futhi kuqinile futhi kuyakhungathekisa kancane. Ngisho nezinkathi zonyaka ezingcono kakhulu nezithela kakhulu zingakufica ungalindele. Kunzima ukwazi ukuthi uziphatha kanjani zonke lezo zithelo! Ngezinkathi zokulinda, izinkathi ezomile, izinkathi zobumnyama—lapho usukhohliwe ukuthi ungubani nokuthi ungokabani—uJesu ufuna ukuthi kuwe, “Ubalulekile”.
Kududuza kakhulu futhi kunethemba elikhulu ukwazi ukuthi noma ngabe isizini, into eyodwa eyohlala iyiqiniso. Into eyodwa ayisoze yashintsha. UJesu uyidwala elithembekile ongancika kulo.
IzAga 3:5 zithi, “Methembe ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho. Beka kuye konke okusindayo.”
Ungathembela Kuye nokuhlakanipha Kwakhe ukukhanyisa indlela yakho. Noma ngabe izimo zakho zimnandi noma zibuhlungu, uyinhloso yakho. Uzokukhombisa ukuthi ungubani. Uma konke okubonayo kuyimibhalo eqoshiwe ekhasini, Ubona umsebenzi wobuciko oqediwe. Unganciki kokwakho ukuqonda okulinganiselwe. Themba ukuhlakanipha Kwakhe okungapheli. Thembela Othandweni Lwakhe Lwaphakade.
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