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“Kufanele Uzithande”
Kwamanye amazwi Akhe adume kakhulu, uJesu wathi, “‘Kumele uthande uJehova uNkulunkulu wakho ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho, nangawo wonke umphefumulo wakho, nangayo yonke ingqondo yakho.’ Lona ngumyalo wokuqala nomkhulu kunayo yonke. Owesibili ubaluleke ngokufanayo: ‘Thanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena’” (NgokukMathewu 22:37–39).
Lokhu kusikhombisa ukuxhumana phakathi kokuba nobudlelwane noNkulunkulu nokuba nobudlelwane nabantu, njengoba sibonile emuva esifundweni sokuqala . Kodwa akebheke emthethweni omkhulu. Qaphela ukuthi uthi, “Wothanda umakhelwane wakhonjengoba uzithanda wena.” UJesu waveza ukuhlobana okuqinisekile phakathi kothando lwethu ngabanye nothando lwethu ngathi.
Iningi lethu lichitha isikhathi esiningi lizonda izinto eziphathelene nathi kangangokuthi asiboni ukuthi sikhinyabeza ikhono lethu lokuthanda abanye. Ayikho indlela ongathola ngayo ukuthi ungamthanda kanjani omunye umuntu kahle ebudlelwaneni uma ungakacabangi ukuthi uzithanda kanjani wena.
Abanye bethu baziphatha kabi. Samukela okuncane kunalokho esaziyo ukuthi kusifanele. Sephula imizimba yethu nezinhliziyo zethu futhi sivumele nabanye ukuba benze okufanayo. Sisebenzisa amazwi ethu ukuze sizibeke phansi njalo.
Awu, cabanga ngalokhu. Uma uzehlisa isithunzi, nakanjani uzogcina usuphatha umakhelwane wakho, noma ngisho nowakwakho, ngendlela efanayo.
Ukuze ufunde ukuzithanda ngendlela uNkulunkulu ayehlose ngayo, kufanele wakhe ubuhlobo noNkulunkulu, ono thando. Khumbula, ubuhlobo bakho Naye buwubudlelwane bakho bokugcina. Kodwa-ke ukuzithanda kusho ukwamukela ukuthi ungubani uNkulunkulu, njengoba kungase kube nzima kuwe. Kusho ukuthatha isikhathi ukuthola ukugcwaliseka kwakho Kuye futhi uqaphele ukuthi Nguye kuphela ongagcwalisa ubuze obuzwayo ngaphakathi.
Indlela uNkulunkulu akudala ngayo kwakungelona iphutha. Khumbula, Wenza isintu futhi “wabona ukuthi kwakukuhle kakhulu!” ( UGenesise 1:31 ) Ukubiza ngobuciko bakhe bobuciko (Kwabase-Efesu 2:10). Ufuna ukuthi uzibone ngendlela Akubona ngayo—uthandwa futhi uyigugu.
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