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Ukuze Uxhume, Zibophezele

Ubudlelwano obuhle abuzenzakaleli. Kuthatha ukulima, umsebenzi, nesikhathi esiningi. Lokho kudinga ukuzibophezela!

Angikwazi ukubala izikhathi lapho mina nomkami uKay siye sazizwa sifuna ukuphuma emshadweni wethu, ikakhulukazi eminyakeni yokuqala. Kwakukhona izikhathi eziningi lapho sicabanga, “Lokhu akufanelekile. Sehluke kakhulu. Lomshado awusoze wasebenza.”

Kodwa asizange siphume. Kungani? Ngoba senza isithembiso. Senza isifungo—“Kuze kusehlukanise ukufa”—hhayi nje komunye nomunye kodwa nakuNkulunkulu. Ngakho-ke sithe, "Sizokugcina lokhu kuzibophezela noma kusibulala." Futhi kwacishe kwenzeka! Kuke kwaba nezikhathi emshadweni wethu okuwukuphela kwento eyasigcina sindawonye kwakungukuzibophezela—hhayi uthando noma isithakazelo kodwa ukuzibophezela nje esikwenze kuNkulunkulu. Ngijabula kakhulu ngokuthi asizange siphele amandla. Namuhla, umkami ungumngani wami omkhulu, futhi angikwazi ukucabanga ukuphila kwami ngaphandle kwakhe.

IBhayibheli lithi kuzAga 18:24, “Umuntu wabangani abaningi angase abhujiswe, kodwa kukhona umngani onamathela ngaphezu komfowenu” (ESV).

Ingabe bewazi ukuthi ukuzijabulisa kwakho kungakugcina ungabi nobudlelwano obujulile? Ungaba matasa kakhulu ezingosini zokuxhumana, ukuzijabulisa, nokwazana kangangokuthi awulokothi unike isikhathi namandla nomzamo odingekayo ukuze uhlakulele ukusondelana okujulile nokwanelisayo komngani omuhle noma umfazi omuhle noma umyeni omuhle.

Akuyona into embi ukuba nabantu abaningi ojwayelene nabo, kodwa bangakugcina umatasa kangangokuthi ungakha ubuhlobo obubalulekile, obuseduze. Awudingi abangani abaningi ukuze uphile kulo mhlaba, kodwa udinga abambalwa abalungile. Udinga ukugxila kwikhwalithi, hhayi ubuningi. Abantu obaziyo - amakhulukhulu "abangani" bakho be-Facebook nabalandeli be-Instagram - angeke babe khona lapho ubadinga. Kodwa abangani oxhumene nabo ngokweqiniso futhi ozibophezele ukuba benze kanjalo.

Konke okubalulekile, ukuxhumana okuseduze kuqala ngokuzibophezela. Uma ufuna ukweqa ubudlelwano obungajulile, obukha phezulu, kufanele uzimisele ukunamathela kukho.

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