Uwudonsela Kuphi Umugqa?

Kucatshangelwe ukukala okulandelayo kokuthintana ngokomzimba futhi kwafakwa umugqa lapho ucabanga ukuthi kungokwakho khona. Ngamanye amagama, ngemuva kokufuna ukuhlakanipha kukaNkulunkulu, uwuthatha kuphi umugqa?

Inhloso akukhona nje ukugwema okuthile okuhle ngoba utshelwe ukuthi akulungile. Ukugwema ukuya ocansini ngaphambi komshado - okudalwe nguNkulunkulu futhi okuhle - kudumisa uNkulunkulu futhi kuzuzise umshado wakho isikhathi eside.

Ukunikezela izinkanuko zakho okwesikhashana kuNkulunkulu kususa amacala, kukusize ugxile ekuxhumaneni ngezinye izindlela, futhi kukwakhele izibusiso ngokuzayo.

Singakutshela ngokwemigomo ethile lapho sicabanga ukuthi kufanele usethe khona imingcele yakho. Singasho ukuthi noma kunini lapho udlula esigabeni sesihlanu kuba nzima ngokwengeziwe ukugcina ukulawula. Kodwa ukukutshela okufanele ukwenze kwenza umehluko omncane ngaphandle kokuthi ubambe inkolelo ngokuqiniseka. Asikwazi ukuba unembeza wakho.

Lesi yisinqumo esidinga ukucatshangelwa okujulile, ukuqonda okucacile kokuthi amanani akho asuselwa kuphi, kanye nokufuna umphefumulo kakhulu engxenyeni yakho. "Zihloleni nina," kusho uPaul ku-2 Korinte 13: 5, "uPaul abone ukuthi usekholweni yini." Udinga ukubhekisisa ngokucophelela ukuthi yini wena nomuntu othandana naye enivumelana ngayo eyamukelekayo, unikezwe izindinganiso nezinhloso zakho.

Udinga ukunquma kahle ukuthi yini evinjelwe uma kukhulunywa ngokuthinta ngokomzimba, futhi udinga ukunquma ukuthi iziphi izilungiselelo (ukuba wedwa efulethini ndawonye, ngokwesibonelo) ezingavunyelwe uma kukhulunywa ngendlela oveza ngayo imizwa enothando. Udinga futhi ukucabanga ngezinhlobo zezingubo ozigqoka ngosuku nokuthi zingenza yini kube nzima ukunamathela esinqumweni sakho.

Ukubeka imingcele kuyisinqumo okudingeka usenze wedwa futhi ekugcineni ukhulume nomlingani wakho. Nobabili kudingeka nazi ukuthi imingcele iyini.