Leading By Example

By Rob Nieminen

“If anyone causes one of these little ones—those who believe in me—to stumble, it would be better for them if a large millstone were hung around their neck and they were thrown into the sea.”—Mark 9:42 (NIV) 

As we work our way through Mark 9, we’ve encountered different scenes that feel somewhat disjointed at first glance. Let’s review before we explore today’s verse.

First, there was an argument that took place between the teachers of the law and the disciples, seemingly over their inability to heal a man’s son possessed by an evil spirit, whom Jesus promptly heals. Afterward, Jesus asked His disciples about a disagreement they had with each other while on the road. They were silent because they were arguing over who would be the greatest in the kingdom. Jesus knew their thoughts, so He took a child into His lap to illustrate a point about humility and servitude being the path to greatness and accepting the most vulnerable ones among them. 

In the next breath, Mark says the disciples told Jesus they rebuked a man for exorcising demons in His name. Jesus, in turn, corrects them and says that anyone who is not against them is for them. And then He offers a stern warning to His disciples about the dangers of leading “little ones” astray.

What’s happening here? 

Biblical scholars agree the term “little ones” does not only refer to small children but includes those who are less mature in the faith. And throughout this chapter, we see the disciples creating obstacles to the gospel for others. They argue with religious leaders, fight with each other about who will be first in the kingdom, and try to condemn a man who was trying to set an oppressed person free because he wasn’t “one of them.”

In other words, today’s verse isn’t only for outsiders, but to those closest to Christ as well—and that includes us. In her commentary on Mark 9, professor Amy G. Oden writes: “Sometimes, even our best intentions to reprove others can have unintended consequences for innocent bystanders. Indeed, great damage is done to the gospel when Christians are preoccupied with infighting and self-righteous proclamations about others. Jesus returns the focus to our behaviors, the ways we speak and live good news, and the ways we place obstacles in the way of that good news.”

Jesus’ warning in today’s verse is stern because those who look to us and follow our example can be hurt when we don’t embody the faith we claim. Let’s be careful not to cause anyone—young or old—to stumble by our carelessness, but let’s be the hands and feet of Jesus to a watching world.

Pause: Do you ever find yourself trying to argue about who’s right or wrong in some theological or political debate or determine who’s on your side and who’s not? What message do you think it sends to those around you?

Practice: Rather than draw lines in the proverbial sand over debatable issues, let’s be the kind of people Jesus describes in Mark 9:41 who give a cup of water to the thirsty and welcome the little ones in His name (Mark 9:37). 

Pray: Father, help me see the areas in my life where I may have caused someone else to stumble in their faith and forgive me for getting in the way of the good news You offer them. Please help me repent and lead others to the life-giving, thirst-quenching hope of the gospel by my example. Amen.