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“As Long as We Both Shall Live”: A 3-Day Marriage Plan

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For Better and Worse?

For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. (Genesis 2:24)

Did you hear the one about the wedding ceremony of a young contract lawyer and his bride? When the minister got to the vows, he intoned, “Do you take this woman for better? For worse? For richer? For poorer? In sickness? And in health?”

He was startled to hear the groom cautiously reply, “Yes. No. Yes. No. No. And yes.”

Of course, we’d all like to sign up for the better, richer, and healthier parts when we get married and forget all that other stuff. But that’s not the way marriage works because that’s not the way life works.

In another wedding ceremony, this one real, the bride and groom pledged to stay married as long as they continued to love each other. Let’s hope they both know good divorce attorneys, because they’re going to need them. Relationships based on feelings are necessarily ephemeral and transitory. The only real stability in marriage is produced by firm commitments that hold two people steady when emotions are fluctuating wildly. Without such determination, even the best relationship is destined to disintegrate.

Just between us . . .

  • Are you still as committed to me as you were when we married?
  • Are we prepared to “hang tough” when the going gets difficult?
  • Why do you think so many couples don’t stay together?
  • What kind of commitment does the Lord expect of us?
  • What can we do to make sure our commitment to marriage stays strong?

Dear God, in Your presence we renew our whole-hearted choice to love. Bless this holy commitment with courage, strength, tenacity—and most of all joy! Amen.

Excerpted from Night Light for Couples, used with permission.

And they called Rebekah and said to her, “Will you go with this man?” She said, “I will go.” (Genesis 24:58, ESV)

Then Isaac . . .took Rebekah, and she became his wife, and he loved her. (Genesis 24:67, ESV)

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“As Long as We Both Shall Live”: A 3-Day Marriage Plan

“Outdo one another in showing honor” (Romans 12:10); “through love serve one another” (Galatians 5:13); “with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another” (Ephesians 4:2); “encourage one another and build one another up” (1 Thessalonians 5:11); “. . . love one another as I have loved you” (John 15:12). If these represent how we’re to treat fellow believers in general, how much more our spouses?

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