SEXUALITY - the BIBLE DARES to TALK ABOUT IT!Намуна

Ephesians 5:25 (NIV): Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.

1 Peter 3:7 (NLT): In the same way, you, husbands, must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.

Non-sexual affection: a royal road to ... sexual understanding!

No, it is not a typo; you read it right! Non-sexual affection exists, gentlemen, and you need it as much as your wife does.

Sometimes, your wife just wants to be held in your arms. She needs to feel your warmth and affectionate protection. It is a moment of tender complicity that she is looking for, and you feel that this tenderness stops there on her side. The only problem is, after a few minutes of holding each other like this ... you feel things happening inside you, your imagination goes wild, and you get an erection! Now what?

If you get "serious," the idea may sometimes be welcomed, but most of the time, it is not at all what your wife is looking for at that moment. Worse: the next time you simply want to hug her, she will suspect you have other things on your mind and will not be interested in either tenderness or sex. Ouch!

What is going on?

Your wife has a deep need to feel emotionally connected to you and secure. Spending time together, tenderly embracing each other, allows you to connect on a soul level and reassure each other of your bond and mutual attachment. The more your wife feels fulfilled on this level, the more loving she will be, and the more she will want you … sexually, but at another time!

That is the key to success: to ensure she is totally relaxed during these tender moments, tell her right from the start that you will not "try" anything at the end, that it is a moment of pure emotional connection. This way, she will not have to wonder if anything sexual is going to happen on your side, and she will be able to relax and enjoy this moment of complicity, and ... you too!

Want your wife to want you more sexually? Become experts in non-sexual affection!