Be an Angel: 5 Days of Inspiration and EncouragementНамуна

Bob Kerrey grew up in a quiet Nebraska town during the 1950s. Nothing prepared him for what he witnessed—and participated in—as a Navy Seal during the Vietnam War. Wounded and permanently disabled during his tour of duty, Kerrey received an unexpected gift: compassion for those who suffer and an appreciation for the capacity of leaders to change lives.

In a world that expects otherwise, kindness sets us apart. Unexpected kindness disarms people and de-escalates conflict. To an often hurting and angry world, kindness reveals a patient and merciful God, a God who loves.

I’ve learned that between every stimulus and response lies a space, and in that space, we get to choose. Kindness often involves not reacting to something quickly. Difficult? Yes. Impossible? No! We can train ourselves to respond with kindness when someone might expect defensiveness. We can train ourselves to choose compassion when anger feels more natural. We don’t have to do “what’s expected.” We can rise above because we’re created by God for love, not hate.

Be an Angel: The next time you feel angry or defensive, make space for a gracious response rather than a quick reaction. Unexpected kindness will make healthy change possible. Let’s watch the difference kindness makes.