The Book of JamesНамуна

Today's Devotional:

We all know what it feels like when anger starts rising within us—we want to be right, have the last word, or prove our point. In the heat of the moment, it’s easy to become quick to speak and slow to listen. Stephen Covey says, “Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.” It’s no wonder we live in a culture with so much division. If believers aim to live counter-culture like Jesus, we must lead the way in listening, understanding, and showing empathy despite our differences.

The Chinese character “Ting” is translated as “to listen,” but it’s an overly simplified definition. Each part of the symbol represents a different facet of listening—the ears, eyes, heart, mind, and undivided attention. It’s a picture of active listening, attuned to the other person with the intent to understand. If we want to become quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry, as James instructs in this passage, “Ting” is a great place to start.

If we lose the ability to listen well, we starve our souls of empathy and feed anger and self-righteousness. The next time you find yourself in a conversation with someone, practice active listening. Ask questions, stay curious, and paraphrase their words back to them to make sure you understand. Not only will you grow in compassion and wisdom, but you’ll grow in influence because everyone likes being around a good listener.

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Today's devotional was written by Melissa Miller.

Questions:

1. Who is the best listener you know and why?
2. In what situations do you find yourself quick to speak?
3. What conversation this week will you practice active listening?

Prayer:

God, help me to become quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry. Grow me in compassion, empathy, and the ability to slow down and actively listen to those around me. Help me actively listen to you—with my ears, eyes, mind, and undivided attention. Strengthen my relationships. In Jesus’ name, amen.