Preparation: A Study in 1 ChroniclesНамуна

What does it say?

King David and his military commanders won victories over enemies who came against Israel.

What does it mean?

David’s kindness in sending messengers to offer sympathy to the new Ammonite king was misunderstood and perceived as an enemy tactic. Perceived as spies, the Israeli men were seized and humiliated. Paranoia and bad advice quickly turned David’s kind intentions into an act of war. The situation continued to escalate until three nations were armed and marched into battle. The entire situation could have been avoided if either the Ammonites or Arameans had pursued talks before jumping to conclusions.

How should I respond?

Perception may not be reality. We often don’t have a clear understanding of another person’s actions or motives. Misunderstanding can escalate quickly unless you begin to communicate with the person involved. Think about the personal conflicts that could be avoided if you moved toward them with a desire to understand rather than confront. With whom do you need to discuss a matter in order to get a clearer understanding? It takes courage to deal with wounds that have made enemies of people. Will you ask God for wisdom to see your relationships clearly so your perception is consistent with reality?