Bible Explorer for the Young (Esther)Намуна

Timeout to Cool Down

Proverbs 15:1

A gentle answer will calm a person’s anger. But an unkind answer will cause more anger.

When Esther found out about Haman’s evil plan, she must have been furious and worried too. She gave herself a three-day timeout and spent it by fasting together with her servants. At the end of her fast, she was able to deal with Haman’s threat to her people with a cool head. She managed to keep her anger under control. It was totally the opposite of Haman.

Determined to save her people, Queen Esther went to meet king Xerxes, although she had to risk her own life. The king asked her to tell him whatever she wanted; even half of his kingdom he would give to her! Yet, Esther didn’t directly confront Haman or asked the king to execute Haman. She chose to prepare a banquet for Haman and the king. Then, Esther invited King Xerxes and Haman to attend another banquet the following day.

Let’s learn from Esther together! When you feel angry, take a timeout to cool down. During that period, you can spend your time praying, reading the Bible, or sharing your feelings to your parents or trusted friends. Once you have cooled down, make a sensible decision on how to deal with the source of the anger wisely. 

Prayer

Dear God, I want to be like Esther, to be someone who is wise even when I am feeling angry. Help me God. Amen.