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"Let's talk about Sex, Baby"

You cannot get around speaking directly about your sensual needs. A fulfilled love life is fruit of active communication:

How often do we want to sleep together?

What turns you off? (And this is not only about white socks…)

What turns you on?

What can I do better in bed?

What are you secret erotic desires?

And please be honest. Otherwise, you might as well put in a Maya the Bee* DVD and watch how Maya jumps from flower to flower.

Sexuality is something very intimate and has the potential to create or destroy life. All too often sexual desires pile up, which one does not dare to speak about, even though they are totally legitimate.

MARRIAGE BOOSTER
Each one of you writes a sexual desire on three pieces of paper. Then pick one and you both talk about it. If both of you agree on doing it then good luck! Repeat this process until all the sex notes have dissolved into love.