The Commitment of Marriage

Genesis 2:24

“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.”

Marriage is not something to be taken lightly. It is a serious commitment that requires preparation. By understanding your spiritual role in marriage and God’s design for a life-long commitment, you can ensure you’re putting your best foot forward now and in the future.

So, what does the Bible say about being a husband?

Lead with Love and Understanding

Ephesians 5:25-28 instructs husbands to love their wives just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her. This passage emphasizes a sacrificial, unconditional love that seeks the best for one's spouse. Leading in marriage does not mean dominating but serving your wife with compassion, understanding, and respect. It involves being proactive in communication, empathetic toward your wife's feelings and needs, and committed to growth within the relationship.

Provide Spiritual Leadership

1 Peter 3:7 calls husbands to be considerate and respectful to their wives, treating them with honor as co-heirs of the gift of life so that nothing will hinder their prayers. This highlights the importance of spiritual leadership within the home. Being a spiritual leader means guiding your family in faith, initiating prayer, and encouraging engagement with scripture and the church community. It's about setting a godly example and fostering a spiritual environment that supports your family’s relationship with God.

Commit to Faithfulness and Integrity

Proverbs 20:6 poses the question, "But who can find a faithful man?" suggesting that faithfulness and integrity are rare and valuable. A godly husband is called to be faithful not only in avoiding infidelity but also in being dependable and trustworthy in all aspects of married life. This includes financial decisions, parenting, and daily interactions. Integrity in marriage translates to transparency, honesty, and loyalty, forming the foundation of trust and security in the relationship.

Preparing yourself to be a biblical husband means learning how to embody these characteristics. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, there are things you can do now to prepare yourself for marriage. From practical tips to spiritual truths, we’re sharing four ways to prepare yourself to be the best godly husband you can be.