Preuzmi aplikacijuHey, There, Girlfriend: Finding Courage for FriendshipUzorak
Alone is where we find ourselves sometimes. It might be because of a job change, relocation, or school. Maybe you’ve experienced loss, suddenly finding yourself drowning in emptiness. You and I can even be alone in a crowd. Just because people are around doesn’t inoculate you from feeling isolated. Yes, alone is a familiar place for many, but alone is not how God intends for us to experience life.
Before sin entered the world, God announced the one thing in all of creation that is not good (Genesis 2:18). We see this need met primarily through marriage, but the effects of loneliness and social isolation span across relationships. Ecclesiastes expounds upon this need by professing two are better than one, and three are even better (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12).
The Bible echoes this sentiment by bringing rich examples like Ruth and Naomi (Ruth 1), Paul and Timothy (2 timothy 2:3-5), Elijah and Elisha (2 Kings 2:2-12), and Moses and Aaron (Exodus 4), to name a few.
Jonathan and David were unlikely friends who also stand out. Jonathan should have been hunting David down with more resolve than his father, but there was no hatred or resentment, only solidarity. Why? While Scripture doesn’t say it, it points to a need.
Directly after David defeats Goliath, with nothing more than some rocks and a sling, Jonathan identifies a kindred spirit. These two find common ground in their fervor and love for God, overriding any human dissent. When David is running for his life from Saul, Jonathan helps him find strength in the Lord (1 Samuel 23:16-17).
Both men exhibit courageous faith, one in initiating the relationship, the other in reciprocating it. Sincere love is shared between friends devoted to one another, honoring the other above themselves. This relationship illustrates the friendship God desires for His people (Romans 12:9-10).
The Gospel calls us into relationships, even those that seem unlikely. It’s His good plan that you and I experience the joys, the burdens, and the gift of loving beyond ourselves that come from friendships He ordains.
Maybe you need to pray, initiate a phone call, meet up with someone for lunch, or clear your schedule to be available for someone. Today, take one step toward leaving your habits of isolation, trusting God to provide for your needed friendships.
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