Importance of Maintaining Purity in a RelationshipShembull

Day 2 - Practical Ways to Uphold Purity in Christian Courtship

Upholding purity in Christian courtship requires intentionality and commitment. Here are practical ways to maintain purity in the context of a relationship:

1. Set Clear Boundaries: Establish boundaries from the outset of the relationship. Discuss what is acceptable and what isn't, and agree to respect these boundaries.

(Ephesians 5:3)"But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people."

2. Prioritize Accountability: Regularly meet with a trusted mentor, pastor, or counselor to maintain accountability and seek guidance in upholding purity. (Proverbs 27:17) "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another."

3. Pray Together: Make prayer a central part of your relationship. Pray together for strength, wisdom, and purity. (James 5:16) "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective."

4. Engage in Godly Activities: Opt for activities that align with your faith and keep the focus on spiritual growth and connection. (Philippians 4:8) "Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable if anything is excellent or praiseworthy think about such things."

5. Practice Self-Control: Exercise self-control in your actions, thoughts, and desires. Cultivate discipline to honor God and your partner. (Galatians 5:22-23)"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things, there is no law."