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Listen to Your Parents

Parents are God’s provision for protection and learning. Therefore, as we listen to them, we can learn from God. We learn lessons about living frugally, being honest, and working hard. We also learn what not to do, such as eating poorly, not exercising, and not forgiving. Parents teach, and children learn regardless of whether either recognizes the educational exchange. This learning process is meant to help each generation improve.

Parental honor is the cornerstone of any family that is forging their faith in Christ. You are destined to be dysfunctional without learning from your parents’ mistakes and building on their successes. You honor your parents when you listen to them, learn from them, and obey them. You honor God as you honor your mom and dad, so value your parents because of their position rather than their performance. (Ephesians 6:1-3)

This high honor and esteem of parents help entire nations of families to focus on what makes a lasting legacy. Once a society sequesters the elderly in isolation as a burden and offers euthanasia as an option, the beginning of the end of that foolish culture has arrived. As we serve our parents, we will see Jesus. They can provide perspective only experience affords.

Take the time to look past the rough exterior of your dad and determine to draw out his nuggets of wisdom. Help your mom process her fears and forgive her shortcomings, and you will see the beauty of her advice. Parents are not perfect, but even in their imperfections, they invite honor and attention. Listen to your parents and learn from them; you will learn from the Lord. Parents are a gift from God, so receive them by faith and steward the relationship in humility and love. (Luke 18:20)

In what area of my life will I invite my parents’ advice and feedback in an honorable way?