US AGAINST THE WORLD: Biblical LoveShembull

Key Verse: “It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking…” 1 Corinthians 13:5a

Devotional: 

From David: Love does not dishonor others. Sure, Tam has made me upset before, but when she does, I don’t run to her family and friends to tell them every little thing she did that bothered me. Married or not, I don’t believe anyone wants to feel dishonored. How much more should a wife feel honored by her husband? I always remind myself that God allowed me and Tam to get married for a reason. God put us together as a reflection of his love. When I honor my wife, it builds a stronger relationship between us, and it pleases God. For example, whenever I speak at an event, I make sure to introduce my spouse to the group. I would never knowingly embarrass Tam. I honor her. So I always try to make sure that at the end of every day, she knows that I love her, and I want my children to see honor in our marriage as well.

From Tamela: Love is not self-seeking. Amen! My job as David’s wife is to be considerate of his needs. Sure, I will have needs. But my goal is to spend time meeting his needs and trust that he is doing the same for me. That’s the way it’s supposed to be. As I am focused on him, David is focused on me. When we go out on dates, I’m not just thinking about what I would enjoy. I’m also thinking about what he would enjoy as well. In your marriage I encourage you to do the same. If both of you are trying to outdo the other with love and kindness, there will always be joy and mutual respect there. Remember, you are one flesh. Love and serve your spouse the same way you would your own needs and desires.