EquipHer Vol. 7: "Empower Your Voice, Impact Your Audience"Chikamu

Day 4: The Power of Feedback and Reciprocal Growth

Receiving and giving feedback is often one of the most challenging aspects of communication. We fear being judged or, conversely, hurting others. However, Scripture offers us a different perspective: feedback can be a gift, a way to refine our character and relationships. We often fear criticism in our professional and personal lives, even when it may offer us the keys to meaningful growth. But the Bible teaches us that listening to advice and correction is essential for our growth (Proverbs 19:20).

Feedback isn’t just about receiving comments or corrections but also about giving constructive responses that help others grow. “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17). Reciprocal growth is a principle that involves our commitment to improving together. Just as we’re reminded in Proverbs 27:17, feedback is a tool for refinement. Giving and receiving feedback may sometimes be uncomfortable, but it’s necessary for our faith, relationships, and work growth.

In Colossians 4:6, Paul encourages us to speak with grace, even when we need to correct someone so that our words don’t wound but rather edify. Feedback should always aim at the growth of the other, not their humiliation. Most importantly, it is an expression of love that promotes improvement.

When we receive feedback, we must do so with humility. Listening to others' observations allows us to recognize our limits and areas for improvement. As God intends, growth is not just a process between us and God but also happens within the context of our relationships with others. As Psalm 25:9 states, “He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them his way.”

Reflective Questions:

• How can I learn to embrace feedback with a humble heart, seeing it as an opportunity for growth rather than a personal criticism?
• How can I apply the wisdom of Proverbs 27:17 to my professional life, striving to contribute to the growth of others?

Prayer:
Lord, thank You for every opportunity for growth that You give me. Let me understand that every word of correction is an opportunity to improve and become more like You. I want to be a person who, through words and listening, contributes to the well-being and growth of those around me. Amen.